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A Little Respect Goes a Long Way

The word 'respect' finds its roots in "respectus," meaning "attention," consideration, or regard. With its Latin origin, respect is defined in various ways. For instance, Oxford defines it as "a feeling of admiration for someone or something because of their good qualities or achievements," while Cambridge defines it as polite behaviour, especially towards someone older or more important.


Respect in Islamic Perspective


In contrast to these definitions, Islam’s approach is fundamentally different. The Quran and Hadith emphasise the importance of respect as a vital principle and quality that must be observed by Muslims toward everyone, regardless of their differences. 

"We have indeed honoured the descendants of Adam and provided for their means of transportation on land and sea, and given them wholesome food, and exalted them high above the greater part of Our creation (17: 70)."

This honour, associated with the phrase ‘descendants of Adam,’ signifies the oneness of humanity in the light of human dignity. It's not specific personal attributes that bring honour; rather, it's because Allah alone is our creator, making us from the same substance, as indicated by the verses: 

"O humanity! Indeed, we created you from a male and a female and made you into peoples and tribes so that you may get to know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you (49:13)."

Islam promotes the equality of all human beings, irrespective of race, ethnicity, or social status. Human diversity is a sign from Allah, fostering cooperation and competition for mankind's prosperity. 

Qays ibn Sa’d reported: A funeral passed by the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and he stood up. It was said to him, “It is a Jew.” The Prophet said, “Was he not a soul?” 

Moreover, the last sermon of Prophet Mohammed clearly states, "All mankind is from Adam and Eve; an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab, nor does a non-Arab have any superiority over an Arab; a white has no superiority over a black, nor does a black have any superiority over a white except by piety and good action".

 Respect for every individual, regardless of their actions, is a fundamental principle in Islam. Even a criminal deserves dignified treatment, as punishment is meant for reformation and deterrence, not humiliation. 

Prophet Muhammad's life provides numerous examples of compassionate treatment. During battles, he captured prisoners, treating them humanely as prescribed by Allah. Eventually, he released them, either unconditionally or upon ransom, recognizing the inherent respect every person deserves.


Why is Respect Important?


Fundamental Human Right: In the Qur’an, Allah emphasises the importance of choosing the best words and actions: "And say to My servants that they should only say those things that are best... (17: 53)."

Important Sunnah: Prophet Muhammad consistently practised respect in his majlis (gatherings).

Promotes Healthy Relationships: Respect forms the basis of all healthy relationships, fostering trust, understanding, and mutual appreciation. 

Builds Trust and Rapport: When people show respect, they tend to earn trust and build rapport with others, crucial in relationships between individuals, communities, or nations. 

Enhances Communication: Respectful communication encourages open, honest, and considerate expressions, valuing diverse opinions and feelings. 

Fosters a Positive Environment: In environments where respect is upheld, individuals feel safe, valued, and appreciated, leading to increased productivity, creativity, and overall well-being.

Encourages Empathy: Respect requires understanding and accepting others' perspectives, leading to increased empathy and mutual understanding.

Promotes Tolerance and Understanding: Respect for diversity reduces prejudice and discrimination, promoting tolerance and acceptance.

Boosts Self-Esteem: Feeling respected enhances self-esteem and self-worth, contributing significantly to confidence and mental well-being.

Facilitates Conflict Resolution: Respectful communication and understanding enable effective conflict resolution, finding common ground amicably.

Encourages Personal Growth: Being respectful allows individuals to learn from others, consider different viewpoints, and expand their horizons, crucial for personal development.

Strengthens Communities: Communities built on respect are more cohesive, supporting each other's growth and well-being, and enhancing resilience.

Creating a Safe Environment: Respect fosters kindness and empathy, ensuring a safe, supportive, and bully-free environment for all community members.

Defining Integrity: Giving respect showcases individuals' integrity and moral character, reflecting commitment to dignified interactions.

Establishing Peace: Respect plays a pivotal role in building peaceful, cooperative, and secure communities, fostering unity and understanding among members.


Practising Respect in Daily Interactions:


Be Mindful of Verbal and Nonverbal Communication: "And say to My servants that they should only say those things that are best... (17: 53)."

Be Kind and Courteous: "Kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever is not kind has no faith" (Muslim).

Be Polite, Avoid Interruptions and Disturbances: "Shall I not tell you whom the Fire is forbidden to touch? It is forbidden to touch a man who is always accessible, and has a polite and tender nature."

Avoid Gossip, Discrimination, and Assumptions: "O you who believe! Avoid most suspicion—some suspicion is sinful. And do not spy, not backbite one another..." 

Be Willing to Admit Mistakes and Apologise: "Fear Allah wherever you may be; follow up an evil deed with a good one which will wipe the former out, and behave good-naturedly towards people." (At-Tirmidhi) 

Avoid Looking Down Upon Others: "Do not look down upon any Muslim, for even the most inferior believer is great in the eyes of God." (Abu Bakr)


Conclusion


Respect for mankind is a fundamental teaching of Islam, transcending differences. Every human being deserves respect. The Prophet (pbuh) sought to eliminate class and racial distinctions, emphasising the importance of treating every soul with dignity and respect.

"This realm becomes a crucial testing ground for our faith in God, a measure of our 'Thaqwa.' Our deep love and devotion for Allah manifest in our relationships with His creations. A true believer is driven by an innate urge to love and respect every aspect of Allah's creation, a testament to their unwavering faith and reverence." 

Respect is an integral part of faith in Islam, a religion of mercy and peace, promoting the value of respect. Remember this wisdom: "If they respect you, respect them. If they disrespect you, still respect them. Do not allow the actions of others to decrease your good manners because you represent yourself, not others."

In Islam, respect is encapsulated in a simple yet profound statement: “O Yazid, love for people what you love for yourself.” The Prophet urged his followers to treat others as they wished to be treated, emphasising the value of good character.

In conclusion, always remember: "A little respect goes a long way..."